Mentoring Minutes

Live in Humility Toward One Another

“You younger men, likewise, be subject to your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because God is opposed to the proud, but He gives grace to the humble.”  (1 Peter 5:5)

Love and Lordship in Focus…What do you think of when you think of humility? Maybe humiliation? I don’t know about you but that’s not something that I’m especially fond of. And yet, we’re called to put on, wear or clothe ourselves with humility? While we can certainly learn humility from humiliation, maybe humility is much more, and much better, than humiliation? Maybe it’s actually really good for us!

Peter’s next “one another” command to us as believers is a repeat of a prominent command throughout Scripture as taught and modeled by Christ and shared by several of the writers of the New Testament under the inspiration of The Holy Spirit. He tells us to “…Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another…” (1 Peter 5:5).

If you want to be on God’s Team Christ has made a way but we can only do so as we walk, clothe ourselves and grow in humility. False humility (Pride) means we willingly choose to be on the other team and God opposes us (James 4:6). Do you really want God as an opponent?

Paul tells us in Philippians that this should be our attitude toward others, the same as in Christ, that of humility toward others, placing them above ourselves. He then describes what Christ gave up (His Heavenly lifestyle and glory to become a man…fully God and fully man…and then give up that physical life on the Cross). This is Humility. This is Love. (Philippians 2:3-8)

Remember that humility is not thinking less of yourself or not of yourself at all…it is being confident and content in who you are in Christ so you can willingly choose to place others above you (John 13:3-5; Romans 12:3).

This is what Peter (and Paul) and most of all Christ, is calling us to do in order to love others and show the world what His Love really is like.

I don’t know about you but for the longest time, I had to admit that humility was (and at times still is) maybe the most difficult of traits associated with Love. I also have to confess that I’ve not always “loved” in the attire of, or clothed in, humility. However, as I’ve grown in Christ, I’ve found that humility is absolutely necessary for me to love God first and foremost and then others, and it carries with it the most beautiful blessings of love as I continue to put on humility and grow in Love just as my Savior and Lord, Jesus Christ, did so that others can see and know Him and His Love.

You will find the same if you’re willing and courageous enough to be obedient to Him and walk in humility…it is so powerful and absolutely life-changing…but it does require that we die to our self…just as Jesus taught us to and did for us!

How are you doing when it comes to clothing yourself in humility in order to love others as Christ loved you? As a Christian what is your life saying to others about His Love? If you’re not a Christian you can’t truly know this kind of humility and love.

Food for Thought…How have you thought about humility in your life? Has the way you thought about it endeared you to be obedient in clothing yourself in it…or made you reluctant to wear this incredible trait or maybe even completely resistant to do so and therefore disobedient to God and His Word? What do you need to do be put on humility at all times?

Love in Action…

  1. Spend time with God and in His Word, prayer and listening every day…begin with the Scriptures in this message.
  2. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you.
  3. Take time to consider your experiences in humility and whether you’ve associated it with humiliation. How has that impacted your willingness to take on humility?
  4. What do you need to do…or give up doing…in order to choose humility in all things…and have God on your side rather than against you? Start doing it today…lay down any and all pride!

Once again we can be in awe of God’s Word and what it calls us to be and do…and yet because of our life experiences, our relationships and our natural flesh we find ourselves struggling to do what He commands us to do in loving others. Being to change that today and be blessed.  

Contact us at loveandlordship@gmail.com.

Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Heavenly Father, humility certainly does not come easy to my flesh and yet You tell us that we are not only to put on humility as our clothing but be humble just as Christ set the example. Help me to choose humility and in doing so know that you are giving me grace and working in my favor.  In Jesus Name. Amen.

Gifted to Serve One Another

“As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the multifaceted grace of God.”  (1 Peter 4:10)

Love and Lordship in Focus…Every single one of us has been given a gift…a special gift from God…and He intends for us to use it in service to Him and as a faithful entrusted steward or manager in how we use our gift(s) in service to others. This is a huge part of how we are to love one another in Christ’s Church and show the world what that looks like.

Peter continues with his “one another” exhortations from The Holy Spirit in 1 Peter 4:10, “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others…”

And may we never forget or fail to put into practice the fruit of Your Spirit (Galatians 5:22-25) and prioritize our faithful maturing in the fruit so that Your Love and character is seen in and through us and others will desire to know Christ as Savior and walk with Him as Lord. Far too often we get caught up in asking and seeking for His gifting without choosing, as disciples, to mature in His fruit!

As if all of these commands weren’t already calling us to die to self for others, this one gets right down to it…whatever God has gifted me with is to be used in service of others…and for His Glory. May we remember that as branches in the Vine (John 15:1-17), our service must be an overflow of Christ in and through us. We simply bear what He alone produces.

This is very difficult and even impossible (v. 5) as long as we’re trying to produce for Him rather than humbly receive and bear what He has for us…and through us to others.

Help us to not be caught up in “churchianity” service that is rooted in flesh and emotion but truly serve as if we’re literally dead to self and Christ in us!

There’s a big difference in telling The Lord what we’re going to do for Him and being a “living sacrifice” not conformed to the way of the world but transformed by the renewing of our mind in Your Word and Spirit (Romans 12:1-2) and saying, “Lord, here I am…have Your way in and through me.”

May our service truly be an overflow of Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord and The Holy Spirit in and through us. Whatever God has given to us in terms of spiritual and natural gifting let it be poured out to Him and may each of us be a living sacrifice so that He can do in and through us whatever He desires as the starting point and as reasonable acts of worship and service to God and others to build His Kingdom and bring Him Glory!

Jesus is not only our Savior and Lord…He is our example of serving others (Matthew 20:25-28).

How are you serving others for His Kingdom and Glory? Is your service rooted in the excitement of the flesh or the surrender of your life to His will and way? There is a difference and I pray that you know it.

Food for Thought…Every one of us has been given at least one spiritual gift. We all have some natural gifting and in both cases there are some that have more than others. We’re not called to compare, rate or rank how we stack up with others. We’re called to give ourselves and our gifting back to The Lord and allow Him to use it to serve and love others.

Love in Action…

  1. Spend time with God and in His Word, prayer and listening every day…begin with the Scriptures in this message.
  2. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you.
  3. When it comes to your gifts, how do you see yourself…God’s Way used for His purposes? Or man’s way in pride to see yourself above others or in frustration because others have more gifts that you do?    
  4. Pray and ask The Holy Spirit to show you how He’s gifted you. Take a spiritual gifts inventory to find out what it says and how it aligns with The Spirit. Begin today to see yourself through God’s eyes and gifting and use it to serve Him and others.  

Contact us at loveandlordship@gmail.com.

Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Heavenly Father, thank You for giving me, and all of us, natural and spiritual gifts. Help me to remember that these are given to be used in Your service as we love and serve others to glorify You.  In Jesus Name. Amen.

Halloween – Holiday or Day or Horror?

There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.  Romans 8:1
It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.  Galatians 5:1

Love and Lordship in Focus…So often today we struggle with where to draw the lines, how to live out our faith in a culture that promotes so much that is not in line with God’s Word.  However, His Word is clear on many of the issues and where it is we must stand firm.  Where it is not clear we must extend the freedom we have in Christ to others.

Halloween…Holiday or Horror?  Fear or Fun?  Sacred, Secular or Spiritual?  Participate or not?  Several have asked me about Christians and Halloween?

How is a follower of Christ to “handle” Halloween?  At Love and Lordship our focus is to point people to God and His Word as the Authority (Lordship) for every issue.  With this in mind, here’s one Christ follower’s take on Halloween from a Scriptural perspective…

I remember as a youngster (over 50 years ago) growing up in little Berry, KY (population 200) where we excitedly looked forward to Halloween every year!  We knew every other family and kid in town and we were so excited to purchase and wear our costumes (that we’d certainly outgrow before next year’s funfest) of the latest cartoon character, superhero or vintage skeleton or friendly ghost, etc.

We knew exactly the houses where we would get the most candy or gum and which ones to avoid because they would give nothing or very little or because they were “haunted” based on all the “true” stories that only heightened the suspense and excitement of the evening!  We also knew that we were not to eat more than 2 or 3 pieces of candy (always picked out the biggest pieces) that evening and all the rest was put into a pile with our siblings’ “take” and doled out over the next few weeks leading up to Thanksgiving and Christmas. 

Halloween was nothing more than a great time of dress up and candy for kids, telling scary stories and bridging the gap between summer break and the Holidays! We knew nothing of the spiritual darkness or the Occult. 

Times have changed and ignorance is not always bliss.

The Origins of Halloween 

For the sake of brevity here’s a summation of the origins of Halloween…Halloween was rooted in the Celtic festival of Samhain believing the “spirits/souls of the dead” crossed over into the realm of the living.  This would clearly be in violation of God’s Word to avoid such belief and behavior encompassed broadly in what is called “divination and witchcraft” (Deuteronomy 18:9-13).  While this is under the Old Covenant and the law it still signifies what is unholy in God’s eyes and that never changes.  We simply now have Christ who has taken away our sins once we are brought out of ignorance or willful defiance in faith by repentance into God’s Truth and holiness.  These things are still unholy and as such we should not participate in them.  (Galatians 5:19-21)

When the Romans conquered the Celtic tribes they instituted some of their own rituals to honor a goddess and in 835, Pope Gregory IV moved the celebration for all martyrs (later saints) from May 13 to November 1. The night before became known as All Hallow’s E’en or Even or “holy evening.”  Halloween is derived from and rooted in this recognition and church tradition.

As with most things in this fallen world we see the influence of the pagan and fleshly as well as that of Christian faith.  That certainly creates a tension.  So how are we to approach and respond to Halloween according to God’s Word?

Biblical Guidelines

As we consider this we also need to remember that modern day church and culture have impacted how we celebrate, enjoy or reject this holiday or pagan ritual.   Two Biblical principles from Romans 14 can give us a balanced approach to Halloween:

  1. Personal Conviction (Romans 14:1-8, 14, 22-23) – be sure you have settled in your heart and mind before The Lord according to His Word regarding the issues…are you celebrating it as a holiday to remember saints and martyrs of the faith; do you see it as a secular and fun festivity to be enjoyed by you, your family and others in a similar manner; or, do you struggle with the pagan and dark spiritual roots that will affect any and all who dabble in them…the enemy is good and we must be aware of what is happening (1 Peter 5:8)  with regard to this aspect or we can be easily drawn into the darkness before we know it.

Remember, ignorance itself may not be sin but the darkness of ignorance can easily be used to lead into the darkness of sin.

  • Relationship and influence with others (Romans 14:10-16) – how will we interact with believers (and non-believers) who may think differently?  You know where you are in your convictions but you must also consider the affect of your actions on others, especially those who are less mature in the faith.  If we do not consider the impact on others we are not acting in love (v. 15), which should always be our highest consideration as we represent Christ.

How Can Christians Respond to Halloween

With these two underlying principles, parent(s) can determine how they will approach Halloween…

  1. Fun, festive event (with lots of candy, gum and goodies) to enjoy with others;
  2. Opportunity to share the Christian history of acknowledging the saints and martyrs of The Faith; a combination of these first two; or,
  3. Choose not to participate in Halloween due to the pagan connections.

Regardless of which you choose, take the opportunity to share with your children all that Halloween entails and the freedom you have in Christ as well as the dangers that are present in the realm of spiritual darkness.  This can be a great faith builder!

As with all issues of faith you must remember that, as a follower of Christ, His Word and Spirit is what guides you.  Be sure to know and apply His Truth so that the enemy does not deceive you and get the chance to do the same with your children.

Here are 10 tips to help you navigate Halloween always covered in prayer:

For those who choose to not participate:

  1. Turn your outside lights off and make it a family movie night
  2. Make it a date night if its just you and your spouse
  3. Get together with another (or other) family(ies) for a night of Bible Study, fellowship, food and fun
  4. Take the dog for a walk and smile (genuinely) at all those participating – don’t condemn, pray for them

For those who choose to participate:

  • Pick costumes that depict fun and fantasy
  • Avoid costumes that deal with the occult or spiritual darkness (vampires, witches, skeletons, warlocks, death, etc.)
  • Make this an opportunity to have age-appropriate discussions with your children regarding Halloween (light and darkness) to help build their faith
  • Be wise with the candy and gum received…if properly allocated it can last until Thanksgiving or maybe even Christmas!  Good luck with this.
  • Consider passing out Gospel items (cheaper than most candy) along with goodies!  You never know what seeds may be planted!
  • Join in with your church (or consider starting something with your church) that celebrates the Church and/or secular side as an outreach to your community.

We walk in God’s Word and principles, and in Christ, there is freedom for us that we are to extend to others.  

In closing, here’s an article with respect to light and darkness that may help you address not only Halloween but how to discern and decide on related issues that impact you and those you may lead out of darkness into His Light!

Make it a great day and God bless in Christ!

Love and Lordship…Food for Thought – Check out the history of Halloween and determine how you and your family will approach this day.

Love in Action

Share with your children or other families as you have the opportunity what you have learned about Halloween, the freedom you have in Christ and how it strengthens your faith.

Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Gracious Heavenly Father, help us to understand and discern where Your Word clearly leads us, what we are to steer clear of and where we have the freedom to choose.  May our convictions be in line with your Word and lead by Your Spirit as we extend Your grace and freedom to others.  In Jesus’ Name. Amen.








































































































































































Gracious Heavenly Father, help
us to understand and discern where Your Word clearly leads us, what we are to
steer clear of and where we have the freedom to choose.  May our convictions be in line with your Word
and lead by Your Spirit as we extend Your grace and freedom to others.  In Jesus’ Name, Amen.




Halloween…Holiday
or Horror?  Fear or Fun?  Sacred, Secular or Spiritual?  Participate or not?  Several have asked me about Christians and
Halloween?

 

How is a
follower of Christ to “handle” Halloween? 
At Love and Lordship our focus is to point people to God and His Word as
the Authority (Lordship) for every issue. 
With this in mind, here’s one Christ follower’s take on Halloween from a
Scriptural perspective…

 

I remember
as a youngster (over 50 years ago) growing up in little Berry, KY (population
200) where we excitedly looked forward to Halloween every year!  We knew every other family and kid in town
and we were so excited to purchase and wear our costumes (that we’d certainly
outgrow before next year’s funfest) of the latest cartoon character, superhero
or vintage skeleton or friendly ghost, etc.

 

We knew
exactly the houses where we would get the most candy or gum and which ones to
avoid because they would give nothing or very little or because they were
“haunted” based on all the “true” stories that only heightened the suspense and
excitement of the evening!  We also knew
that we were not to eat more than 2 or 3 pieces of candy (always picked out the
biggest pieces) that evening and all the rest was put into a pile with our
siblings’ “take” and doled out over the next few weeks leading up to Thanksgiving
and Christmas. 

 

Halloween
was nothing more than a great time of dress up and candy for kids, telling
scary stories and bridging the gap between summer break and the Holidays! We
knew nothing of the spiritual darkness or the Occult. 

 

Times have
changed and ignorance is not always bliss.

 

The Origins of
Halloween
 

 

For the
sake of brevity here’s a summation of the
origins
of Halloween
…Halloween
was rooted in the Celtic festival of Samhain believing the “spirits/souls of
the dead” crossed over into the realm of the living.  This would clearly be in violation of
God’s Word
to avoid such belief and behavior encompassed broadly in what is
called “divination and witchcraft” (
Deuteronomy
18:9-13
).  While this is under the Old Covenant and the
law it still signifies what is unholy in God’s eyes and that never
changes.  We simply now have Christ who
has taken away our sins once we are brought out of ignorance or willful
defiance in faith by repentance into God’s Truth and holiness.  These things are still unholy and as such we
should not participate in them.  (
Galatians
5:19-21
)

 

When the
Romans conquered the Celtic tribes they instituted some of their own rituals to
honor a goddess and
in 835, Pope Gregory IV moved the
celebration for all martyrs (later saints) from May 13 to November 1. The night before became known as All
Hallow’s E’en or Even or “holy evening.”
 
Halloween is derived from and rooted in this recognition and church
tradition.

 

As with most
things in this fallen world we see the
influence of the pagan and fleshly as well as that of Christian faith.
 That
certainly creates a tension
.  So how
are we to approach and respond to Halloween according to God’s Word?

 

Biblical Guidelines

 

As we consider
this we also need to remember that modern day church and culture have impacted
how we celebrate, enjoy or reject this holiday or pagan ritual.   Two Biblical
principles
from Romans
14
can give us a balanced approach
to Halloween
:

 

1)   
Personal
Conviction (Romans 14:1-8, 14, 22-23) – be sure you have settled in your heart
and mind before The Lord according to His Word regarding the issues…are you
celebrating it as a holiday to remember saints and martyrs of the faith; do you
see it as a secular and fun festivity to be enjoyed by you, your family and
others in a similar manner; or, do you struggle with the pagan and dark
spiritual roots that will affect any and all who dabble in them…the enemy is
good and we must be aware of what is happening (1
Peter 5:8
)  with regard to this
aspect or we can be easily drawn into the darkness before we know it.

 

Remember,
ignorance itself may not be sin but the darkness of ignorance can easily be
used to lead into the darkness of sin.

 

2)   
Relationship
and influence with others (Romans
14:10-16
) – how will we interact with believers (and non-believers) who may
think differently?  You know where you
are in your convictions but you must also consider the affect of your actions on
others, especially those who are less mature in the faith.  If we do not consider the impact on others we
are not acting in love (v. 15), which should always be our highest
consideration as we represent Christ.

 

How Can Christians Respond to Halloween

 

With these two
underlying principles, parent(s) can determine how they will approach Halloween…

 

1)   
Fun,
festive event (with lots of candy, gum and goodies) to enjoy with others;

2)   
Opportunity
to share the Christian history of acknowledging the saints and martyrs of The
Faith; a combination of these first two; or,

3)   
Choose
not to participate in Halloween due to the pagan connections.

 

Regardless of
which you choose, take the opportunity to share
with your children
all that Halloween entails and the freedom you have in
Christ as well as the dangers that are present in the realm of spiritual
darkness.  This can be a great faith builder!

 

As with all
issues of faith you must remember that, as a follower of Christ, His Word and
Spirit is what guides you.  Be sure to
know and apply His Truth so that the enemy does not deceive you and get the
chance to do the same with your children.

 

Here are 10 tips to help you navigate
Halloween always covered in prayer:

 

For those who
choose to not participate:

 

1)   
Turn
your outside lights off and make it a family movie night

2)   
Make
it a date night if its just you and your spouse

3)   
Get
together with another (or other) family(ies) for a night of Bible Study,
fellowship, food and fun

4)   
Take
the dog for a walk and smile (genuinely) at all those participating – don’t
condemn, pray for them

 

For those who
choose to participate:

 

5)   
Pick
costumes that depict fun and fantasy

6)   
Avoid
costumes that deal with the occult or spiritual darkness (vampires, witches,
skeletons, warlocks, death, etc.)

7)   
Make
this an opportunity to have age-appropriate
discussions
with your children regarding Halloween (light and darkness) to
help build their faith

8)   
Be
wise with the candy and gum received…if properly allocated it can last until
Thanksgiving or maybe even Christmas! 
Good luck with this.

9)   
Consider passing out Gospel items (cheaper than most
candy) along with goodies!  You never
know what seeds may be planted!

10) Join in with your church (or consider
starting something with your church) that celebrates the Church and/or secular
side as an outreach to your community.

 

We walk in God’s Word and principles,
and in Christ, there is freedom for us that we are to extend to others.  

 

In closing,
here’s an
article
with respect to light and darkness that may help you address not
only Halloween but how to discern and decide on related issues that impact you
and those you may lead out of darkness into His Light!

 

Make it a great
day and God bless in Christ!

 

Love and Lordship…Food for Thought – Check out the history of Halloween and
determine how you and your family will approach this day.

 

Love and Lordship…Action Item – Share with your children or other
families as you have the opportunity what you have learned about Halloween, the
freedom you have in Christ and how it strengthens your faith.

 

End of Article

 

Love and Lordship Prayer
Focus