Mentoring Minutes

Comfort/Encourage One Another

“Therefore, comfort one another with these words.”  (1 Thessalonians 4:18)
“Therefore, encourage one another and build one another up, just as you also are doing.”  (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

Love and Lordship in Focus…The best place to find comfort, encouragement and strength is in God’s Word and by His Holy Spirit through other believers. Look for opportunities to instill comfort and courage as you build up others in the faith.

We’re going to look at another “one another” that’s actually expressed twice near the end of Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians in 4:18 and 5:11. In both texts he tells the church there and us today to “…Encourage each other…”

Do you need encouragement today? Do you get discouraged by all you see going on in your community or state, in our nation or around the world…jobs, inflation, economy, COVID, war, rumors of war and on and on?

Paul reminds us that The God of All Comfort comforts us in any and every difficulty not just so we can be comfortable but to enable us to comfort others with what we’ve received from Him. (2 Corinthians 1:3-7)

The Thessalonians were struggling with issues as well. One of those was the varied ideas and teachings about what happens after they die…especially now that they’d been promised eternal life as believers in Christ? Paul plainly explains what will happen to those who have died in Christ and those who remain when He returns and it is very positive indeed. So in the midst of all their consternation and angst, he reminds them after his encouraging words by The Holy Spirit to “comfort (encourage) one another” with these incredible words of hope in Christ and His return.

He continues on in chapter 5 (as we know it but it would have been one continuous letter from Paul) by encouraging them himself to not be lazy or unaware but to stay sharp and be ever ready for Christ’s return because it could come at any time. He reminds them and us as Christ’s disciples and as His Church to always be alert and sober in our thinking and to put on the Gospel armor so that we are not caught off guard at any point and then he reaffirms them with the familiar words of …Encourage each other…” and he adds to it, “build one another up with these words.”

To encourage others literally means to infuse or input courage into them. We can all use some of that! There are times that all that’s going on around us can cause us to become discouraged but we have the hope of Christ and eternal life and we are to both live in this hope and comfort, encourage and build others up so they can live in it as well.

Are you choosing the encouragement of Christ, His Word and His promised return? Or are you allowing the brokenness and evil of this world to discourage you?

I pray that you are encouraged in Christ and are spending time in His Word and prayer so that you may be comforted and built up in His Truth, Grace and Love!  

Food for Thought…What does it look like for you to be comforted, encouraged or built up? How do you comfort, encourage or build others up? Find the strength to do so in God’s Word through Christ and The Holy Spirit and allow others to share with and encourage you as well.

Love in Action…

  1. Spend time with God and in His Word and prayer every day…begin with the Scriptures in this message.
  2. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you.
  3. Look for those in need and find ways to comfort the hurting; encourage those who are struggling and; to build up those who downtrodden.
  4. When you’re in need allow others to comfort, encourage and build you up.  

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Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Heavenly Father, thank You for the clarity of Your Word and Your promises that are all “Yes” and “Amen” in Christ! As I am encouraged, comforted and strengthened by Your Words of Life and Eternal Life and by other believers help me to encourage others in the same way. In Christ’s Name. Amen.

Brotherly Love for One Another

“Now as to the love of the brothers and sisters, you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another;”     Paul  (1 Thessalonians 4:9)

Love and Lordship in Focus…Real Love can only come from God as any other imitations fall short. Our “brotherly love” must be an overflow of His Agape (selfless, sacrificial, self-giving love that prefers Him above all else). We cannot love our fellow man and compromise God’s Love in any way.

Seems that The Holy Spirit had much to say about loving “one another” to each of the churches that Paul helped plant as the early church was growing. Must have been important to know how to treat, what to do and what not to do to “one another” in order to exhibit Christ’s Love to The Church but also to those around them who needed to see and know His Love as well.

Certainly the same is true today and it has to be much more than just a system or program of events or activities. These “one anothers” are deeply rooted in loving relationships as what forms them and how they grow in Christ.

Paul continued to encourage the Church at Thessalonica in 1 Thessalonians 4:9 with the simple yet powerful command, that we’ve seen before and will see again, to “…Love each other.”

Paul begins this verse talking about “philadelphia” (no not the city of “brotherly love”) as “brotherly love” but the command give is to “agape” one another which is Godly love… preferring God above all others. This literally means that it must be my love for God that drives my love for all others.

As we know from other Scriptures and study, this includes all the other “one

anothers” such as submitting to, exhorting, encouraging, forgiving, etc. Every time we read “love one another” we must consider and apply each of these others as needed in order to build and mature in the loving relationships that set us apart as Christ’s disciples and grow us together as His loving fellowship of believers, the Church (Ephesians 4:14-16).

How are you doing personally in loving others as His disciple? How are you doing as a member of His Body in loving other individuals and His whole Family?

Food for Thought…Do you know God’s Love and are you returning love to Him as of first priority? What does that love look like as it overflows to others in brotherly love? What do you need to change in order to love others without compromising God’s Agape?

Love in Action…

  1. Spend time with God and in His Word and prayer every day…begin with the Scriptures in this message.
  2. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you.
  3. How does your love for others (or lack thereof) reflect God’s Love and prioritizing Him above all else?
  4. What happens when you love in your own flesh and strength rather than according to God’s design and love? What needs to change?  

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Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Heavenly Father, help me to daily seek to know and love You more so I can love others as Your Word has commanded me to do. May it not be just in programmatic service that appeals to and satisfies my flesh but in deeper relationship that helps to make disciples who make disciples who show and share Christ’s love to all others. In His Name. Amen.

Overflowing Love for One Another

“and may the Lord cause you to increase and overflow in love for one another, and for all people, just as we also do for you;”     Paul   (1 Thessalonians 3:12)

Love and Lordship in Focus…Only when we come to know Jesus as Savior and Lord can we truly increase and overflow in our love for others because He is The Source of Real Love! As your receive God’s love in Christ and build your relationship with Him the overflow of love impacts every other person and relationship in your life.

As we continue with the “one anothers” of Scripture we move to Paul’s first letter to the church at Thessalonica where we find one of the more encouraging commands. Paul very positively praised them for their receiving of The Gospel and walking in it as Timothy had gone to them and returned with this good report.

In 1 Thessalonians 3:12, he simply tells them to allow The Lord to “…cause your love to increase and overflow for each other.” How’s that for encouragement!

How can we, as fallen human beings, who only know love as give and take actually overflow with love for others? Only as we give our lives to Christ and by grace through faith receive Him as Savior and Lord. As we do so we are not only forgiven of our sins and made holy before a Holy God but we are given the gift of The Holy Spirit.

This is how we are able to both be filled with His Love and overflow with that love to others…all others!

Being consistent, as Scripture by The Holy Spirit always is, He places the emphasis on The Lord and the producing of that love by The Lord in and through us. He even extends it to say to “one another and to all people.”

It is The Lord that causes us to increase and overflow by His Holy Spirit. You can do this in no other way.

How are you doing when it comes to allowing The Lord to increase your love for others? John 7:38 says, “The one who believes in Me, as the Scripture said, ‘From his innermost being will flow rivers of living water.’” This is the overflow of The Holy Spirit pouring out Truth and Love through our lives as we walk by faith in Christ!

Are you allowing His Love to fill you with your time in The Word, prayer and listening…so it can overflow to impact others and point them to Him?

Food for Thought…Are you trying to love others apart from God’s Love to you, in you and through you? Quit trying to love from an empty vessel in your flesh and allow Christ and His Holy Spirit to fill you and flow through so others will know His Love.

Love in Action…

  1. Spend time with God and in His Word and prayer every day…begin with the Scriptures in this message.
  2. Ask The Holy Spirit to teach you.
  3. Take inventory of your relationships…are they rooted in Godly Love evident to all others?
  4. What needs to change, if anything, for you to increase and overflow His Love to your spouse? Children/family? Other believers? Non-believers? Enemies?  

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Love and Lordship Prayer Focus…Heavenly Father, I’m learning more and more that the only real love that I have is Your Love in me and through me. Help me to receive Your Love, love you with all that I am, know and love who I am in Christ so Your Love increases in me and overflows through me to one another and to all people as you give me opportunity to do so. In Jesus Name. Amen.